Better Definition

I wanted to start my week feeling motivated. Monday morning came with the start of the work week, and I could not function. I got up with my alarm and tried to do the usual morning routine, but physically, I felt ill. I called into work sick, and went back to bed until later. So much for carrying the momentum of motivation into the week, right? Maybe not the most productive way to move onward; but in my defense, I was not well.

I have my theory on why my body felt bad; I kept putting off any of the weekly writing until too close to the posting date, and I struggled to stay on target with any sort of relevant content. The outcome was that I did post on time, but for that last couple of days I felt stressed and out of sync. At this point, I feel I should explain what feeling sick for me usually looks like. I don't really catch the cold or flu or other common ailments. I get off balance in my psyche when I push myself for too long; trying too hard and stressing out for feeling like I'm behind. Then I crash and have to take a day to rest and recover. This week I felt it wise to start way ahead. I want to stay serious in my commitments and therefore should not dread going through the motions.

I actually feel this has been a great week of reflection. Over the past 15+ years I have listened to and read so much content relating to personal growth and self improvement from many different great minds (and some not-so-great minds). During my times of contemplation this week, I felt as though another light bulb came on over my head indicating an “Aha!” moment. The more I think through things, the more I see repetition, and certain pieces of advice start to stand out across the board. I will only focus on one aspect for this post. I still struggle with making daily writing a habit and I want to actually get this drafted ahead of schedule this time.

Out of all the different speakers I listen to, one of these aspects that stands out from others describes how it is extremely important that your habits match your vision. There are several supporting details involved with this, but that is a good, broad summary. Put into practice the habits that will get you to your goals. These past couple of weeks I have actually been lacking in some areas as I have been struggling to develop this new practice. I didn't get any more of the inventory listed in the store and I don't feel that my writing time was on point this week. I am not giving up, so don't worry there!

It sort of reminds me of when I had formal piano lessons as a child, and always being told to “practice, practice, practice!” It's difficult, yes; but going through the motions is crucial. Make time! That brings up another super great concept - time management - of which is key to staying on track. I am more on target this week with the new daily writing habit. I do sit down for writing time between daily and every other day, and I am getting better at getting all the words to flow onto the page! Now I just have to add the other habits back in that I slacked off, keep moving forward adding more, and I'm golden! Hmm, it sort of makes me think about how I use the same principles in my J.O.B! I am constantly needing to adapt and overcome as different factors are always changing around me. Having said that, I suppose that even more important than matching habits to vision is to not lose sight of the vision. Don't let the unexpected obstacles or the daily distractions keep you away from the path to your dream.

There are a couple of reasons I started posting this blog. Some of which are I am working towards a vlog format, but until I get a better handle on the proper format I will continue to blog. I want the content highlighted in my posts to be a springboard into dialog with others to help them realize their own journeys. I want to coach and help others to realize their best selves, and to help others define their vision and the path to get there, though to do that we must first be open to conversation and feedback.

I encourage you to please leave a comment down below the post. Become a part of the conversation. It will ask you to create a login; and it takes just one quick second and is super easy! Check out the online store if you're in the mood, the link is at the top of the page! As you're getting ready for the week ahead just take a moment to yourself to put things in perspective and remember what is most important, then adjust your plans and time accordingly. Stay well, everybody, and have a great week!